Year 2 wrap.

As i said earlier on, this is an edited timeline post. i edited the actual date to be much earlier, so i don't lose track when i review my life after im getting old. *cheaaaaattttt*

Okayh, in short, this is to wrap up my second year of uni life. Starting from Sem 1 to Sem 2, i'm starting to have pieces falling off, it sounds like a zillion days away from me. LOLLLLLLL

Let me start from the very beginning.

Sem 1:

I actually was accepted by 988 Cruiser around end of August and my school starts in September, so i actually started working since the very beginning of my year 2 uni life. Starting from year 2, i'm a full time student and a part time cruiser, but in fact it's actually reversed. MUAAHHHAHAH. Those who know me know i'm a workaholic, but at the same time i'm still a student though, academic couldn't be really set aside and left to die. So between sleep, activities and studies where you only get to chose 2 out of 3, i sacrificed sleep. To be honest, my health is going down hill especially since 2nd year. I overworked myself, but what to do, i'm just so used to being busy. I had insomnia when i was having my 2 months sem break back in hometown coz i was too free. Errrrr...
Okayh, back to the topic.

1. Campus Election
I could barely remember that i was involved in campus election? I've been really busy with UMANY and campus election. I was the candidate for Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences, but i was lost by 49 votes. It's okayh, i still earned a very precious experience though.  I was very grateful that i had really committed comrades in Pro-Mahasiswa and UMANY to battle with me, and also support from my coursemates and seniors. They helped a lot in campaigning, and that time i really felt warm and touched by the unconditional love that was showered upon me. I wasn't really interested to take art at first but i really wanted to do something to fight for student's rights and welfare. But even if i fail, i still could do something. Battle never ends, and fighter never quits. I just felt sorry for all the hardwork they have put in to help me win, all the time and efforts sacrificed. I have my own banner, poster, namecard and everything. The atmosphere during the campus election was one of the best moments in my uni life. Cooperation that goes far beyond racial status made me really happy, and since that time i know how hard it is to work behind stage, and i've decided to help out in the next year even if i don't compete. That time i was really stretched and tired. Attached some photos as well.

2. 21st Birthday

Below was taken during my 21st birthday dinner with my sis at Kingyo, a Japanese cuisine. I actually don't really cold sushi cuisine, but i love hot stuffs and SASHIMI. Lovesss.  *flykisses* 

There were more photos, i'll try to dig it out. Searching photos was quite difficult to me. Miaooo.

And also, i've granted myself the perfect present; i've registered myself as an eligible voter.

I think it's awesome. BTW, have you? :D

3. PBCUM (Persatuan Bahasa Cina UM) 

Besides involving in campus election, i was the External Vice-President of Mandarin Society of University of Malaya. Err, i don't have much to talk about, coz i don't think talking about the negative experiences i had would improve anything. What i could tell is i wasn't so happy coz i've got too much restrictions and objections against me, and only a few share the same ideology with me. It is a bit difficult to work with people who doesn't share the same mindset, but it's okayh, i'll just take it as a learning platform to work with other peoples. Of course, there were happy moments too; getting to know new peoples, and also when the committee board travels to a new place like Pulau Ketam, and we had a fun meeting trip. It was all fine. Still, it's a good learning base, but somehow it's not what i wanted. The challenge is to keep a safe distance from the influence of OTHER societies and club and to keep good reputation of PBCUM. 

4. 988 Cruiser

Back to work, i really gained lots of experiences, i get to exposed to different situations. 

And one of them was to collect donation items for the victims of flood in Kuantan. During end of year 2013, Kuantan experienced one of the most serious flood in 40 years. I was quite worried too, coz it was my hometown and i couldn't make time coz i need to prepare for exams, but luckily i was able to contribute a little. 

988 cruisers x Red Ryders

and also, for the first time, we get to involve in MV shooting for 988 CNY Album, as kelefe. xD

 yeng sial. xD

with DJ, PM Wang. He's super duper friendly :D

That was wrap for sem1 for what i recall. Heh, imma an old lady, couldn't rmb a thing.
Alright, into sem 2!

5. Dayao

FYI, I was the head for singer department, it was really stressed as it wasn't a one or 2 days stuffs. We started planning and preparing since sem1, and i came out with some activities for singers as a training base. One of them was Mini Concert, i only have a wekk to prepare. I know it wasn't perfect and i always have that habit to pull every responsibilities on me, and when things are not properly communicated, people don't feel involved, and end up you will have to do all on your own. I was angry and helpless, so helpless. I have so many to do, on my own. However, you will learn something from every incident. *true enough*

Sem 1 then just end with exams and camps. 

Sem 2: 

Still i've never stop busying with stuffs, but i have some events that have spiced up my life, naiiiiseeee, hectic yt adventurous. I get to try something really new and i'm really happy about it.

1. Open Mic
The first thing i do after coming back from CNY was performing in Open Mic at Good Friends Cafe, SS 15. Open mic is a session opened to public to perform in a cafe, live, this event is promoted by famous local Jazz singer Winnie Ho and DJ Piao Min. Winnie owns the cafe, so she provides a platform for us to perform. They do it by announcing the theme of the month early and if you would like to perform, send her an e-mail, and some demo, then she will decide. Piao Min, the 988 DJ, he actually invited us to attend, but Qi Jian and I, we were ambitious enough that we told him we wanna perform, and unexpectedly, he encouraged us, and we sent Winnie an e-mail. As a reward to our courage, we're rewarded a chance to perform. The theme was 主播篇, err, we just dont care, even if we're just tiny potatoes, we just wanna grab any chance that is possible. Heh, performing is our passion, we'll not let it slip through the fingers. We get Caryn, Ricky and Mark to help us with the music, and we didn't realize ours is like the team that has the most complete performance, with keyboard , guitar and cajon, while others is either with a keyboard or a guitar only. OOPSS, dayao pattern. After rounds and rounds of discussion, we barely come to a consensus, i'll be singing Close To You by Olivia Ong, Qi Jian will be singing 温柔by Mayday, and the duet song is........ "TAAADAAHHHH, 早安，晨之美！by卢广仲." That was a really good piece and of course it's so easy to sing and everybody in the cafe tends to sing together, that is what that makes me feel elated. :DD

oh, i love this photo so much :)

2. Dayao

Dayao falls on 4th May, and we have to prepare for it for the whole March and April. That was mid semester, where we were either having mid-semester test or submission deadline for assignments. I literally died fighting my way out, you may refer to PDS on May 2014 post for detailed article. But somehow Dayao was never on my to-cross out list, no matter how busy and restless am i. Dayao does not just attached physically but also emotionally to us, we spent time together, band practicing, busking, supper, makan-makan, gaigai (jalan-jalan). It has formed a bond that gave us enormous  strength to face challenges positively. Though tired and stretched out, we always want to make sure we do our best in Dayao.

Photo after busking.
The awesome Team A. We were crazy enough that we get into bus coz we're tired of walking and we started to sing, everyone was so enjoyed, and of course we felt awesome. Just awesome.

rehearsal timeee

3. MAG

I couln't recall the name of our team of performing, if i'm nt mistaken, it should be "Royal Symphony". Kimberly, Wei Tang and I made a team to perform in our college dinner, themed Royal. I sang Skyfall and Set Fire To The Rain? I can't remember what i sang exactly, but should be these two. However, it was all good when i was doing rehearsal, but after waiting to long, coz the dinner delayed, my voice couldn't take it, and needed rest, so when i sing, i literally lost my voice, and i know i didn't perform as good as during rehearsal. *sigh*, but what to do, i don't get to sleep for two weeks.

4. PBCUM

I knew I was very busy, but couldn't reject coz this was my turn to take up the responsibility to organize an event for PBCUM. So i took up the challenge, i was the Organizing Chairman. Not too much to say, it's just a farewell and installation + AGM, time to say goodbye, time to put down my burden. Still, i thank for every learning opportunity.

5. MFace

Ohh, this was a very great breakthrough point, i gt to get in contact with this because of 嘉荣老师. My cohost is Jyun, my best partner in 988 and also one of my best fren. We cohosted together, streaming live. It's quite challenging as we have to keep looking at the camera as if we're looking at someone, keep talking, keep preparing photos, songs and videos to play. I have to admit at first, i thought this was quite erm,, "visual" type instead of "hosting" type of programme, because a lot of the "so-called" DJ on other channels are quite low quality and some they would just do sexy dancing in front of the camera to gain attention. But we still decided to join because this channel “酷视台” was really different. Each of us host professionally with all efforts and passion. We like it! And just by the time we thought it's time to sign a contract, it came to an end. It was short, we hosted only for a month. *sigh* What to do, shit happens. But still, i appreciate very much for precious experience gained, and awesome peoples i've met.

invited to Grand Opening of LoudSpeaker @ Puchong Setia Walk 

by MFace ex-colleague, Dennis Gan.

6. UM Scroll

Well, the last epic ones before the sem ends, and UM always wanna surprise us with some choking policies during exam week. This time on, RM50 fees for UM Paper Scroll upon graduation. Like, really? seriously? We studied so hard just for a piece of cert, why would you even grab it away from us? We were so dissatisfied, so we went for some protest. It's exam week, not much ppl who showed support, but we did one campaign "Paper Donation Campaign" since UM is so short of paper, *sarcasm level to the max* and a lot people supported us, and the news went viral within hours. Yu Sheng and I worked really hard on this and finally the school authority tolerated. What a good news to cherish ! Let's cherish the power of students' voice! :DD

 oops, only one quarter is coloured, aiyo students marh, no money marh. what to do?

Okayh, lastly, i bought a new handphone-- Huawei Ascend P6, more awesome photos are to be uploaded. :DD


xoxo,
kbyethx.

Resolution before wrappppp

I literally forgot when was the last time i wrote a post on my bloggie.
So sorry, I couldn't keep to the promise, to write it as often as i could, i was too busy.
I think i haven even have the time to do a wrap for my sec year?
Okayh, i know i'm A epic fail blogger.
I like to write but was not motivated enough to sacrifice my sleep.
Okayh, my bed is my drugs and i have the worst addiction to it. ikr, i can imagine this facial expression on your face.

Okayh, im actually blogging this in a cafe, and i forgot to bring along my laptop charger. So, before my batt runs out, i better do a quick post. *cheattttt* *retardedness*

Okayh, what i wanted to do is to list out my resolution for year 2015. 

It's late, coz i had exam, *excuses* #iknowwxcusesagain #whateverlabetterlatethannone

Though it's late, but i have to do it and really list them out, else...

The bad habit will go recycle again like last year. I was to busy to list out my resolutions and i kept procrastinating.. and ended up, i forgot about all my resolutions. wtf. I barely remember one, that is to do bilingual hosting, and i did it, though my performance was not as stunning, but at least i would say it's a great start.

So, what i'm going to do this year is, i'm going to set vision and mission for year 2015. Besides setting goals to achieve, but also monthly challenge to work things out. Every month, i will list out one challenge i'm going to overcome or to mission to achieve on social media, publicly, and then to evaluate the results at the end of month. It can be something simple, like read up to 3 books a month or to lose 2 kgs. This idea came across my mind because i always have a lot to do but always have no enough time, or i should say, sometimes i don't know where to start. So by achieving each small steps, i will gain more satisfaction and motivation to achieve more. So, this is my own way to motivate myself to go beyond further.

Resolutions:

1. To involve in trilingual hosting. (this has been achieved, in year 2015, before i wrote this, wheee) I'm now officially an emcee for Chinese, English and Cantonese. Please don't hesitate to contact me for job, u know where to find me. XDDD
2. To improve/ bring up my CGPA. (achieving good grades is not always my vision, this was fixed after i finished my exam, coz i know, this time chao da sudah)
3. To get 'A' for my thesis ( of coz! it is what that represents my entire uni life )
4. To lose weight, i literally meant to tone up my abs. I'm sick enough to bounce back again and again instantly after i lost some weight.
5. To buy a car. ( Hopefully *fingerscrossed*)
6. To read more books.
7. To travel alone once.

And since this month is coming to an end already, and i was lazy and slow enough to only blog about this nearly in the end of month. I've decided to have 2 resolutions for February, that is to lose tummy fats and read up to 2 more books (i've done reading one back in hometown, wheeee)

Ok, that's it ! I know i have no enough motivation and dedication, so hopefully i could achieve more by lining out all my monthly resolutions rather than annual resolutions.

Kbyethx. See ya again soon.

Hectic Restless Life - nail and nailed

Hi, long time no see, my readers, my blog, my secret corner. I'm back to blogging finally after disappearing for so long. Tonnes of work and assignments got me grounded for a whole 2 weeks. Walking to the toilet was the most thrilling exercise i had in these 2 weeks. My life was plain "Eat, sleep, FYP. Repeat" You must be saying, "what's so big deal with that, assignments and FYP only what." Mine was not just plain FYP and assignments, but 1 quiz, 3 assignments submission and 6 presentations including 1 FYP research proposal presentation, it means quite a lot to me. Satisfaction and recognization gained from the FYP presentation helps to motivate me in a very positive way. In short, FYP is my 3rd year uni life. Luckily, things went quite well and i'm satisfied though i have to sacrifice my sleep hours and skip some classes.  I have to confess that i've improved much compared to last year, i don't simply skip classes and i tried avoid doing last minute job, but some of the assignments topic are too serious and i could not just crap during presentation without doing further investigation on the history background, esp for political assignments.

Continuously having only 4 hours sleep per day is a real torture, but i survived. I could probably share a very effective "staying up late tips", if you have decided not to sleep whole night, then take a very light nap not more than 20 minutes around 12am, then you will feel extra duper sleepy around 1-2am, MUST NOT SLEEP ! If you ever close you eyes, i guarantee that you'll feel very lethargic even if you wake up at 10am, so hold on and sleep between 3-5am; even if you wake at 8am,you're gonna feel energetic, trust me, i'm a very experienced owl. But if you have so much work that you could not even finish before 5am, then you'll feel again another wave of duper heavy eyelids strike around 6-7am, please do not give in. I would advise you to either stay till the next day or sleep before the wave. 

Trust me, i'm an experienced owl. This is how i survived through my high school and uni life.

However terrible it is, nail it just nail it.

talk to you soon,

im going off for a Ipoh food trip together with the beloved fam,

to distress a bit.

food therapy ad retail therapy work best for me. 

kbyethx, xoxo. 

Face of 'challenges accepted and accomplished'. Achievement unlocked! 

1 quiz, 3 assignments submission, and 6 presentations including FYP research proposal presentation in 2 weeks time. Nail it, just nail it. \(^o^)/YES！

♥

not forgetting to pop a champagne for 10k visits. wheeee, i know it's nothing compared to famous bloggers, which hits in a day could prolly beat my total visits, but it's a lil motivation for myself to continue writing, looking forward to hit another milestones ! :D :'*

#part 3: extra lil facts about me

Alright, so it's bloggy time again. lil facts about me !

Fact 1: I super hate "destroyer" in the karaoke room. 
The destroyer i'm saying here is those who spoil every single song u pick and they knows every song and intentionally sings it awfully. It's a song, halo? At least let me sing on my own, nicely, for just one song la.

Fact 2: "Lite" FM is now my fav.
I used to laugh at LiteN'Easy audiences, because i think it's a radio station for old peoples, octogenerians. But when i tried to listen it once, it was loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. I like oldies, classical hits, and so, i kinda fell in love at first sight(heard) to it. :P

Fact 3: Shopaholic
Yes, i'm a shopaholic and i like to dress up whenever i get out of my room. I like to dress up neatly for classes and i never wear College T-shirts out, unless i'm sick. Coursemates would know this. Dressing up nicely and neatly makes me feel good, and because of this, some of the seniors or unimates who don't know me really well, they secretly addressed me as "flower vase". LOLLLLL, they confessed this to me when they know me better in person. *yawn* HAHAHHAHA, being a shopaholic or ban mei mei is not a guilt ok. xD BTW, i'm good at buying cheap and good quality clothes, you can always count on me for shopping advise. :)

Fact 4: I buy kiddo-size t-shirts.
Ok, i dont really like buying t-shirts, and sometimeswhen i feel like i need some, i like to buy kiddo-size t-shirts. Their t-shirts are much cheaper and it fits perfectly. Buying size 9-12 is just nice for me. :p

Fact 5: I never give-in, esp to boastful people.
Sometimes i meet hateful people, that they “扎住鸡毛当令箭”，thinking themselves are more experienced and more superior than me, and like to give me instructions instead of discussing with me, i never give in. Sorry, i don't care who you are, but i just won't give a sh*t about it. I will just ignore and make you feel transparent. I'm expert at it. 
人不犯我，我不犯人；
人若犯我，我还退忍；
人再犯我，我必不仁。

Fact 6: I'm a coffee addict.
I'm badly addicted to coffee, white coffees, like cappuccino, latte, flat white and caramel macchiatto. I'm wide awakened after having a cup of coffee, and tends to have insomnia until 2-3 in the morning to put me into sleep. But, but, green tea/ black tea is ever worse, i can only sleep at 5am after having one.

Fact 7: I can't spell "Malacca"
I've been wrong for years, that i spell "Malacca" as "Melacca". :D I just couldn't spell it correctly.

Fact 8: I'm an utmost ghost movie lovers.
Yes ! Ghost movies and horror movies are always at the top of the list. Though i might scream like hell, but i'm calm aftermath. I can watch it at house alone during midnight, i can watch it alone it the cinema, (but not alone at midnight la, safety issues). 

i think that's it for today, im tired squeezing my brain juice. Hahahha, see you soon !

kbyethx.

some lil things about me #part2: 15 facts about me

Okayh, out of all things, i just wanna pause reading at this moment after drilling and draining my brain for a few hours for the Research Proposal, argghhh, life of a third year uni student. FYP rules my life. *whips*

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So, instead of doing some light reading or thinking any further for assignments and fyp, i decided to further elaborate lil facts about me. Earlier on, that was a trend called "20 facts about me", so i was tagged and i was too laszy, listed 20 facts, 15 were new and the other 5 was the one previously shared on my blog.

Factsssssss: 

1. Joycelyn. Name was given by my sister, you can't find it in the name dictionary.
Oh that's true, i don't even know exactly what it means but my family was hoping me to become a very cheerful and joyful person. :D i think somehow i did.

2. I hate ppl comparing me with Joyce Chu (Many people like to compare us because my name is Joycelyn Chu. Only name is similar okay?)
I don't have such ability to be compared,garhhh. enough. I am just myself, Joycelyn Chu is just Joycelyn Chu.

3. I sneeze like a kitty, very soft, but at least 4 times in a row.
I'm sorry if i freaked any of you, sometimes i think it would scared off people sitting next to me thinking i have flu and might infect them, it's just sensitive nose....i do it everyday, and no one is infected because of that. T.T

4: Sensitive nose to dust and cheap fragrance.
Hahhaha, that is why i always say "No" to people who offered me fragrance free gifts in the mall (and it's act dangerous to inhale any perfume from a stranger, it might be a crime trap). I always ask my friends to switch the car perfume to the minimum bar when i got in their car, or..i will sneeze non-stop. 
 
5. I enjoy baking and cooking very much.
Yep, and i enjoy modifying my own recipes. I love green healthy diet but desserts at the same time. I baked countless cakes during my sem break and make sure im well fed with desserts whenever i'm hungry and i am so round now.

6. I dislike people to take things for granted, be grateful and appreciate !
Oh. I really hate this kind of people, no much description needed, i think every of us met this kind of people before.

7. I love singing and hosting very much.
I was the previous HOD for Singer department for Dayao concert and im working as a part time 988 cruiser, that i go all around Malaysia and host. Please do not hesitate to find me for hosting jobs, currently expanding my hosting experiences.

8. I'm a workaholic. I enjoy my job very much.

9. I'm a student activist (i guess UM-ians would know)
:D i contested as faculty representative in year 2013 and was lost by 49 votes.

10. I'm hyperactive and i join a lot of activities. 
Errrrr, i think those who know me knows, and they like my time management.T.T
It's actually choosing 2 out of 3 things: sleep, study and activities. LOLLLLL

11. Due to the facts from 8-10, i usually only get to reach my room earliest by 12am. 
Not so bad recently, not everyday at least, i'm old and my body cant take it anymore. Metabolism has gone down so much. *sigh...i'm old*

12. I have a sweet or perhaps diabetic tooth, i always have space for desserts.
Girls have second tier of space just for desserts i guess? :D

13. I got first runner-up for chinese traditional dance though u might think my limbs are robotic. It's unbelievable even for me.
Hell yeah. But i have yet to try modern dance, hope one day i will have such courage to do it.

14. I'm single. There are a lot of people who thought i'm attached and the first question they would ask "Where is your bf from?" instead of "Do you have a bf?"
Refer previous post. Muahahhah

15. I enjoy hanging out with a group of less than 3. Because i like to spend quality time with my dear friends. 
I would prefer to spend time alone rather than a big big bunch, sometimes. :/


Okay, that's all for now. I will keep updating the blog and some lil facts about me, so you could know me better :)) byes

我为什么单身？

很多人会问为什么你还单身？
没有人追吗？
甚至有人会打赌我会嫁不出。
甚至连我自己也常常开玩笑说“如果嫁不出，我就养一只狗陪我。”

我还单身，因为我还没遇到一个对的人。
我的性取向很正常，我喜欢男的。
我有我的择偶条件。但有些听过的朋友说我要求太高。
有朋友说我太强势，会令男生止步。
也有人说“你会嫁不出，因为你没有条件还要求太高。”
坦白说，最后一句话有点伤人。

我在感情中，绝对是个宁缺毋滥的人。我自认我对另一半的要求也许偏高，但这不代表我没有单纯的想要谈一场简单的恋爱。但是我今天的强悍与偏高的择偶条件或多或少都因为我过去的一些情感遭遇。听过我故事的人都会深表同情并体谅我的钢強。只是我不是个爱用自己的私事去与别人高谈阔论，因为我觉得这是隐私。所以，很多朋友都只听过我的择偶条件却没听过我的故事，除非很很要好或是跟我一起成长的朋友。这些只知道择偶条件的朋友都会说“你要求太高”，“你把谈恋爱完美化”。

其实，不然。 没错，我是很强悍，我也不喜欢比我柔弱的男生为对象。我要求高，因为我无论在交朋友、学习、参加活动、谈恋爱，我都希望可以学到东西。我不喜欢把时间浪费在我觉得不可能开花结果的恋爱上。我不会因为寂寞而谈恋爱，也不会因为人有我有的心态。老实说，我寻找伴侣的大前提是他为结婚对象。有些人可能觉得我是个来自侏罗纪的人，有些人说我太天真。我知道感情这回事也不是说一拍即合，或是对方一定是适合的人选，我都明白。只是我个人对恋爱的观点是“婚姻是幸福的开始”不是坟墓。我也希望将来可以有个完整的家。所以如果对方一开始就没有这个念头，那为什么我还在浪费时间在他身上？我觉得我可以好好利用这些时间来充实自己，装备自己遇见一个更好的他。

我不是没有人追，只是目前为止还没遇到适合的他。 我自己也没有要求要马上谈恋爱，我觉得我还有梦想要追。 更何况，我现在忙到连睡觉都没有时间，我还会谈恋爱吗？暂时不会。既然知道没那么快会有个依靠，自然变得很强悍，自我保护意识变得很强。我不喜欢依赖别人，所以很多事都亲力亲为。我现在是抱着“我会单身到老”的心态去过日子。不是我真的强悍到瞧不起全世界的男生，觉得没有人配得起我。而是一种警惕，警惕我在还没有肩膀依靠前，要懂得为自己擦眼泪。

所以当我自己都不紧张没有男朋友甚至因为我宁缺毋滥的性格做好心理准备可能一世单身，你在烦什么？我妈都还没念我咧。

随便你要笑我老姑婆，没人要都好，至少我忠于自己的选择。甚至我以后嫁不出，当了老姑婆协会的主席，我，妨碍你谈恋爱了吗？

我不甘愿就这样耗费我的青春,所以，我不随便谈恋爱。毕。

女生应该爱看书？

今天跟闺蜜去喝了杯咖啡，看了部电影，吃了个晚餐再到海边去散步；整整几个小时当然有说不完的话。我们习惯以华语沟通，我的第一语言理所当然的是我的母语。但奇怪的是，一整天下来，总是不能够正确地把字眼给想出来，也无法正确的运用我认识的词汇甚至是成语去表达我的感受。当时我在想，到底是这几天都一个人呆着，没人和我说话，所以话语变得不通畅还是我最拿手的语言不再是我的优点？放假之前，我特意带了几本书回来，希望可以在假期里阅读完毕。但假期快结束了，书却只读了一本，就是吴若权的《我在听你说》。这是一本教人如何聆听与倾听别人，同时透过虚心的态度去让自己进步。我觉得这本书很有趣，平时的我们总是只顾自个儿说，也不去在乎到底对方要说的是什么。我看了也有很多的想法，也因为经历了很多的事让我渐渐开始少说，多听。但，一天无意间看到一个朋友的部落格，她说“我觉得一个女生一定要培养爱看书的好习惯，因为它可以让我们增加知识。。 ”看到这一句，我觉得挺惭愧的，因为我不是个爱看书的人。基本上除了平时的课本和作业，额外的书大概一年不超过5本书。我想过要多做、多听、少说，却没想过要多看。相比许多同年龄的朋友，我自认是思想比较成熟的，但我的语言魅力与许多的时事新闻却远远不及。我喜欢有个清闲的周末，坐在咖啡厅的角落，喝着热热的马奇朵，慢慢的去看我的书；看书的环境气氛对我来说很重要。但在咖啡座看不完的书往往3个月后，它还是没被翻过一夜。我发觉我好像除了上次看“吸血鬼”系列会上瘾之外，我对书本好像都没有什么坚持，都不会像别人一样要有赶快看完的冲动。我觉得这一点是我必须检讨的，就当作新学期许下的第一个期许吧！我要从这点努力的装备自己，给自己加油！

这学期我要看至少5本书。