sex and gender

Hello guys, it's been quite awhile since i last blogged in english. I'm pretty sorry about that as i am really busy, i had only 5 days that i could be back in my room by 12am, other than that, it's either 1am/1.30am since the new semester started. I actually got lazy to blog but was motivated to blog again when i heard one of my coursemate telling me that she reads my blog. So, ok, gotta wait for awhile for me to cover back my July and August wrap out. Ikr, it's September now, almost October, and i'm still haven done with my previous 2 months bloggie. I know i'm a failed blogger, please just forgive me la okayh.

So just wanna share with you guys about one interesting thing i learnt in class today. It's about Sex and Gender. Let me ask you, how do you define between sex and gender?

Sex is how you're biologically coordinated, how you're born, how you're completed with genitals ( sex organs ), either the guys, girls or both. 
But gender, is how you portrays yourself as a gender you wanna be, how do you tell others your innerself and how the society define a certain sex by the outer look and behaviour. Besides, it also depends on how one is being brought up by the family, how one was treated. It's more to cultural. 

Like for some cases, some people they're born with the guy's body sexual structure, but maybe there is mismatch of chromosomes in the cell which leads them to act more feminine. And they themselves think their soul are girls but they're born with wrong diff body structures.
Therefore, some of them chooses to undergo transgender operation. But still, their sex is still the original ones, how they're born with, how they're biologically inherited from the parents. Sex is something which you cannot change.

But for gender, i would say yes and no. Yes and No, why? It is yes, changeable from an individual's perspective; you have the rights and you're managed to display yourself of whom you wanna be, who you really are. It is No, from a society's perspective, it's very difficult as the society has already had that kind of expectations from you, they have already a mould and expected you to be the exact shape that could fit it. Let's say if you're a boy and being brought up as a girl, the society will still judge you based on your look, if you look like a boy, they'll still locked your image as a boy. There's gonna be a conflict when your family culture does not fit into the bigger culture zone.
I don't know, but i've seen a lot of cases where transgender are not being treated as normal human being, the society bans them from being honest with themselves. I doubt if the gender inequality itself is the root cause of transgender prostitution. :/

Alright, share me your opinions. 
Goodnight, see you soon.

理想主义

人往往太习惯安逸的日子
人往往太习惯躲在温室里
却朦胧的或选择性的不知道
温室总有变成害虫温床的一天
即便如此
却有人选择继续留在温室
对害虫的侵蚀逆来顺受
一直裹足不前
不愿离开现有的渐遭剥夺的栖身之地
不愿去寻找另一片绿叶
更不愿去开拓可能更美好的未来
害虫侵袭发生了
有人选择踏出第一步
甚至也有的已经迈入第二、第三步
有的人一直原地踏步
看见其他人渐渐离开温室
却紧抓着他的裤脚
等了又等
说了又说
还是选择继续拉着别人的裤脚
继续留在快被白蚁腐蚀的温室



也许你会觉得身边有个爱自找麻烦的人
也许你觉得他很多余
也许你觉得他咎由自取
也许你觉得他是傻子
也许你觉得他根本就忘了学生的本质

但你是否知道其实这咎由自取的傻子背后有个理想
是个伟大的理想
你可以不赞同但你不能否定
试着从他的角度出发
站在他的立场去想
愿意去为别人做事
愿意为别人付出
才是伟大的

不要因为步伐不一样而斜视他
更不要因为不了解他而否定他
他也只是因为那颗真心才付出
无论你赞同与否
给他应有的对待
这样才对他公平


给我应有的公平对待





只是突然有感而发。