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11 May 2014

Mother's Day 2014 + Freudian Psychoanalytic Theory

Yes, im writing again, hoho. Am feeling so inspired to write whenever i'm home. Home is a good place to write :p *home is a noble/good place to inculcate good bloggers, teehee* This year i made it back to home to celebrate Mother's Day, finally. Previously, I was too busy with my work and activities, that i missed out almost all important events with family :( Sowiiieeee, Papa, Mama, I'll try my best to come back as frequent as i could. Back to the topic, let's see how i celebrated Mother's Day !

It was actually a very ordinary day with daily routine, woke up and did my assignments for awhile then went out for lunch and to buy movie tickets *a MUST routine for occasions/events* Then we went back and nap for awhile....ikr, i made it sounded boring*the Chu family is very used to take afternoon nap :p* Before going out again, i sneaked out to buy flowers for my mum while she was taking her bath. But too bad, the flower was not ready yt, i was told to come again in awhile more. So by the time we went out, le father used another route to drive to the destination, and my mother was like screaming literally..blahhh, but then she was so overwhelmed when i handled her the lil bouquet of flowers *this might sound really bad, but erm, we weren't educated to be romantic..and flowers...hmm.. they're too romantic xD* however, it feels really good when you see the beautiful smile hanging on her face. And you can actually wrap up a conclusion: "all girls love flowers." Still remember the last time she received a flower from me, was 11 years ago. *shame on me* That was during the 25th anniversary with my papa, and now the 36th anniversary.. Then we had some high-tea session at Secret Recipe before we head for movies. Below are some pictures to share :)







oh so sweet. 


oh bulb! :/ btw, my hand look so long here.

that bouquet of carnations. 
haha, just ngeh ngeh wanna show my photography skills.
macam improve liao. *everybody knows my photography skills sucks.*



Wokayh, let's get into second chapter. As you can see at the title, " Freudian Psychoanalytic Theory". What was that about? it's more intellectual kind but very interesting to know. And if you wanna know more, click here. I was suddenly very inspired to talk about this after i watched this movie. 

I can tell you it's a very good movie to learn Freudian's Psychoanalytic Theory. So to make it simple, i will explain briefly about this theory. This theory was introduced by Sigmund Freud, and he actually laid out that "personality development underlies the consciousness level". And a few simple things, there are 3 identities ( ID, EGO and SUPEREGO ) that lies among your 3 consciousness level. ( conscious, pre-conscious, and unconscious ) 


In short, ID is buried deep down below your consciousness level, ( unconscious ) and EGO appears at a very conscious state. ID was operated by pleasure principle while EGO was operated by rationality. This is also where conflicts will occur. But, as we can see, we have no strong awareness about the existence of ID because it is buried deep down in the sub-conscious mind. Therefore, in this movie, we can see that Dave ( the main character ) he tried to be rational when he realized that he made mistakes (which he is conscious atm) and he couldn't control himself when the sub-conscious mind was controlling over him and ID took over his SUPEREGO identity ( which was to balance out between ID and EGO ). So, we often see people having conflicts between this. :p 


Just something to share, because this movie explains it so clearly that Dave became a demon without himself realizing about it until the last second. And when he is at the pre-conscious state, he thinks he's wrong, and he punishes himself by slapping belt hard to his body. Some might say he's at a conscious state instead of pre-conscious because pain makes him realize. But the main argument here is that he doesn't even realize that the demon lives in him, which is the ID that lies under his unconscious mind, when he thought is the bad guy(who had died earlier on, and Dave wasn't aware about this) who did all the murders. Having this ID that lives in the unconscious mind is usually caused by childhood trauma, and which exactly it was the trauma that has triggered him after he lived his years of life peacefully. (peacefully, i would say so, because he did no violence to others after this trauma, besides himself, but of course, he is psychologically stressed and burdened) That extreme fear is what that has haunted him for years. 


Well, maybe i sound confusing, basically just sharing what i know, just watch the movie and you'll understand what i'm saying. :)
Well, maybe i'm wrong. Correct me then if i am. I'm always ready to learn. :)


Lastly, selfie of course ! xD



                                                            Side Holland double braid. 
                                          If you see carefully, you'll see there's a double braid...
                                                                and dark circles. T.T
                                                #doublebraid #sidebraid #hollandbraid #hotd


                                          ootd. Ignore my face, the lighting in the room was bad. 
                                                        Lacey turquoise blue mini dress with belt.
                                          #ootd #lace #turquoiseblue #minidress #girlsbeinggirls



                                      and Happy Mother's Day !! 




Kbyethx. See you soon. 
HOPEFULLY.



07 February 2013

Home, homed #5

I'm homed finally. Hohoho ! Surprise attack for my mum, told her i'm only coming back on Wednesday morning, will only arrive by noon, but i actually came back on Tuesday night. Yep, i took 9pm night bus, from Puduraya Terminal. *shhh* without telling her, i asked Nyak Hong to come and fetch me and went yumcha with the gang after i reach. Just to make sure i came home late enough so that she won't know. x) Supposed to bring all m luggage into my room, but i got so tired with the tonnes weighted luggages, carried them for i guess around 60 stairs. Enough of it, and i was too tired so just leave it in the living room and drag my already-sleeping-body to hit the sack.Mum was surprised to see the luggages then only she run to my room and see me sleeping, she smiled. That precious smile worth a thousand words, and i just replied :"surprise le..", mumbled a few words, then back to my dreamland.

The gang kinda like nag me a bit for coming home alone so late. To be honest, i just wanted to come home fast and the adventurous spirit in mine just never thought of the danger around me. When i'm sitting here safely and think of what kind of bad things could happen to me, I got goosebumps.  >.< I was really putting myself at a risk. :/ should be more careful next time.

Wanted to update my blog the next day, i was shocked to see that i've not update it for like 6 days? The last post was on 1st Feb, and it's 6th already.. But still didn't managed to do it, why? Procrastinate it for my all-time fav hobby



  That was my homemade Famous Amos cookies. It's finger licking, i'm gonna guarantee you for that. *wink*

And today, oops, yesterday, what i did was this.

Cheese tarts ! it's just pastry shell, without the filling yet, didn't take the photos of the after-filled tarts. I was rushing to see my babes ! ♥

These 2 are all my first try, baking has stopped for like half a year? Bought all the ingredients and just when i wanted to bake it, I was busy with the IPTA thing already. All left abandoned in the kitchen cabinet. I have a very sweet tooth, that's why i'm hooked with all kinds of desserts. I'm the only one got so enthusiastic in baking.


Stories told after i've reached home, how about the 2 days before it? Let's rewind.

Remember the post #OOTD ? After done blogging about it, i went to Midvalley alone. ( yes i'm a loner :p get so used spending time alone)  Spent some time reading and having some nice food. Sometimes kinda enjoy the quiet moment, the time where you can observe people and guess their thinking from their expressions. Analyzing every words spoken and every facial expression changes has somehow became my sometimes hobby. A photographer captures the mood of the people with a camera, but i capture it with my eyes. Sometimes when i see them smiling, i can feel the true happiness in them. Guess it's the advantage of being an anthropology student :) Btw, i was lucky enough to watch Lion Dance and Acrobatic performance held in Midvalley, was surrounded by the CNY atmosphere.

 #thephantomoftheopera #gastonleroux #manhattanfishmarket #creamymushroompasta

I've been here 3 times, with the same meal. -____- Guess i like it coz it taste like my cooking :p



Last Sunday, i can't stand filling hunger with Vico, Oat, Nestum 3-in-1, so went for Subway with Kim at Tropicana City Mall. 

Sub of the day: Chicken Teriyaki

Nahhhhhh !

mine, with extra vege.

On 4th, i remember i was having some bad day, and the mood is really like dropping from heaven to hell. Everything was pending and got all negative replies, and Malc was also very down that time. He went for delicacies to cheer himself a bit, and also tapao-ed for me. Thank you so mucccchhhhh ♥

As what i captioned on instagram, desserts never fail to make me happy. :)

 Vanilla crepe cake from Food Foundry, in Section 17. 

I've neither been there nor having a slice of crepe cake before, and it taste just like heaven. Every single layer was filled with ice-cream like filling and it melts in your mouth. I've viewed the pictures of Food Foundry on their facebook page, it's a place i would like to go, very much. And thanks to him, my list of delicacies tried in first sem extended ! Haha ( all worries gone after nomming :p)
 and ended the night with aqua experience. Again.

 
: stole from kim's instagram *evil grin*

That's it for these few days, gotta sleep now. Tomorrow will be another busy baking day. 
Tata !
 






conclusion of the day: must keep the blog updated at a regular interval, like maybe once every 3 days or else i'll have problems with organizing the thoughts and screwing the brain dictionary hard to find words to put in my stories. :/

discovery of the day: just realized all my photos in this post are taken from instagram, it seems like i can't live without it. *gasp*


03 December 2012

Wedding ♥ a.k.a. Home Coming #4

Ok ! finally updated, promised to keep it alive but i was toooooo busyyyyyy to do so. *facepalm* #unilife

What? You think uni student very free meh, i'm super busy one okayyyy
Sunday - Dance Practice
Monday - Choir Practice
Tuesday - Yao Lan Shou ( it's our uni song composing unit)
Wednesday - Chinese Debate Class
Thursday - Guitar Class

haha, now you believe? it's gonna get even packer since it's reaching the end of semester already. Every lecturer now start rushing assignments and presentations they haven't assign to us. #matilahkorang

Ahem, wait, let's get back. Last Friday, i purposely went back to Kuantan just to attend a wedding. This wedding is special because of the family, we knew each other for dunno how many zillion years and the sister is one of my bestie, Carol a.k.a Shiao Chien.

So, friday's class was *total speechless*. Lecturer didn't show up and nobosy tell us a thing just make us wait there. Another lecturer came in and still ask us to wait, so after 1.5 hour waiting, all of us just sign on a paper to mark attendance and left. So, i went to Puduraya earlier. Reached around 12pm.

I planned to get a ticket departing at 1.30pm, when i reach i was termakan with those 
" MANA PERGI? KUANTAN KUANTAN SINI SINI" and accidentally got myself something stupid. #yaiknowimstupid



I'm not covering anything not even the name of kerani, sorry, because they sucks ! The service sucks, the coach sucks.
Where gt so stupid one, have to run to another counter to get the real ticket, so ridiculous.
So in the end waited like a statue and this stupid coach is even 20 mins late.
And the world's most hated creature, cockroach was spotted in the bus. i kept my eyes looking at it make sure it won't come to me.

Done with complaining, after reach home sure makan all good food la, no need to mention. But still wanna thx mama :D and also Lit Shiuan for the Thai food treat.haha. My belated birthday present le.

The wedding day,

purposely D.I.Y. this to match with my dress. aww,  ♥ it ! shiny oceanic blue.
well, i personally think it looks like mermaid nails kakaka #diynails #mermaidblue 

With light make-up. Mum said i look like a kid. hahhaha


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 OK, you know what? i didn't managed to take a photo with the couple cause they were busy or what, ya, i know epic-phailed blogger. But,i shall attached some photos taken with the groom's sista, muh bestie and her bf. sweet betol !♥


last one, 
 OOTD.
blue floal halter neck dress, loving blue !! ♥ match so muchhh with muh nails !!

ze couple. managed to steal one from the sister. hahaha

gotta off already.kbyethx.


18 November 2012

Home coming #3

Well yes, after another 2 weeks, i'm back AGAIN. And this time, it's because of the mid-term break, so basically i'm rushing for Ethnography assignments and study for tests. But, i actually went out everyday, hanging out with friends, spending some quality time after not meeting my gangs.my school gang, Zoo, the family. ♥

But oops, not so much study for the up-coming mid-term test which is just after holiday !
*guilty*

Gathering with the Zoo at Cherating Steak House.
the girls ! 
 with vivien a.k.a Bibien/ Mokie/ Birdie

 with yun ru a.k.a. ah Fo

 with En En a.k.a nene

 with Kexinn

 with Teng Teng a.k.a. Bit Bit

 with the best guy, Chee Wai known as Agung

i'm selling off this one. He's now single and available. Congrats ! :D

 with the guys, form left : Chee Hong , Yuan Wei, Pe Shee , me , Pooi

 girls ! ♥
 like this !

me with super big face *facepalm* 
#damnit


P/S : Eevon Ong is not here, awaiting her return ♥


Next, Starbucks with the other girls gang TEEHEE.

 with yan ling and shiao chien a.k.a. froggie chien

 Lastly, early Christmas greetings form us !



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TADAHHHHH

my masterpiece :))



had a really nice week lazying around at home and having homecook dishes. AHHHH, BEST THING EVER. thanks mom
 

28 October 2012

Home coming #2

LOLLLLL. after 2 weeks i'm home again. Actually, i didn't plan to go home that often. But but but, i can explain this. Last time i went back to take all my pre-U notes which i need as reference while studying and this time we have 4 days holiday in a row as in conjuction with Hari Raya Haji. so what am i gonna do in my room in these few days ? Aiyo, so ended up having part 2 of home coming lo. The best part is, i went back together with Nyak Hong, and we both missed the buss coz we stoppped by at KL sentral and were too into telling ghost storries in UM.
so, u see :


only took a few photos during Kai Ping's birthday celebration, he's my best-to-bully-buddy during form 6 time. *awww, nostalgic*

 with Kai Ping at TC, McDonalds. * i'm still holding that fries, wth*

 with Eevonne at Teatime

Didn't take much pictures, coz the lighting there sucks. zzz.

and...
finally
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Now, i have time to watch movies finally. Watched #sinister and #paranormalactivity4 . Yep, both horror movies. But if you want me to rate it, as below.

My advice, don't watch any. Well sinister is mucchhhh better compared to paranormal activity. Don't watch it, if you're true horror movie lover, you find it sucks. I felt my 11 bucks wasted man, at all.
Still, not as good as expected. Thai horror movie is still the best.



P/S: gotta off faster. i'm writing this post in a real midnight, alone in the room. I scared if it haunts me when im sleeping. hahha, bye. See ya !



2.5 stars out of 5 stars


3 out of 5 stars






15 October 2012

Return of chuchu ♥

HEY peeps !!
Finally imma back to the arms of my kingdom, Kuantan.♥
#homehasthebestthgs #homecookdishes #mygirls 
12th October, finally. Met up with my girls and had some really nice talk to them. At our fav hang out place, The Dessert House. #mysocalledsecondhome I really like spending time with them, they just like for who i am. I don't have to pretend or hide anything from them, i'm just me.

some of the crazy thgs we did :DD

 we have 1 malaysia here. -.-


 sifu Kong !!

  sweet group pics ♥



♥ you girls soooooo muchhh 

miss them so much after not seeing each other for 2 months. 

They made me feel hommeeee.
it's where i'm belong to. *winks*

i'm lazy to write another post about the other outing with my froggie and panda during the next day. so gonna end it with a pic. heheheh

nomming my fav, strawberry cheese cake from lilawadi.
*i'll talk more about lilawadi when next time, haha.very nice place* 


That's it a quick update about my first return, kbyethx.