Ok, i can't hold myself of not giving any opinion about this statement which i think is very wrong. I have to admit i am very emotional at the moment i saw this and some guys even agree with it. So, let's hear what i'm gonna say, i might sound harsh, but you won't feel it unless you're a woman.
No, seriously i can't agree with this which stated :
" Wearing shorts in public is not polite, and the government should limit the women's attire."
I saw my friend shared about it on facebook, and his friend, which is a guy, actually agree to this statement, and sorry that i impolitely responded to his comment though i do not him. But please, think from a girls' perspective. Be fair, guys will never be the one who bear the consequences at the end. Will guys got raped? No, even so, i think they'll call the so-called girls who raped them sexy as hell or hot chicks. Will guys have phobia towards socializing and sex life after being raped? No. Will guys get pregnant after being raped? No, but those girls who raped them might get. Females will be the one at the losing end, and now you're blaming us for putting ourselves in fire?
like LOL??
And now, it's YOU GUYS who can't hold your sexual desire, and you're the one who harm the woman, who rip their clothes off and leave them a scar for life. You're blaming us for that? You're saying that we induce the rape cases to happen?
If you rape because her clothing is provoking,
then can i hit your face because your look disgusts me?
why blame the victims instead of those who committed crime?
YOU MUST BE JOKING.
have some senses !
Try to put yourself in the shoes; imagine how people nastily violates your dignity, denies your rights and climb on you without you allowing it. You might not be able to imagine that kind of pain, but what if she's pregnant after being raped? That will be another tragedy, and her life would be.
So, my point of view here is not just to scold blindly just because you put the blame on the females' clothing but the government should figure out a proper education. An education system that teaches the people to respect other's rights and desire. If you want it, then earn it, don't force it. And that one guy who agrees it mention about the foreigners problem which they are most of the nation who made up the culprits, I would suggest them to buy the service instead. I'm not against prostitution to be honest though it's morally wrong, if you can't solve it by educating, solve it by this. And I'm not denying that women should be responsible of their own safety; girls should avoid alone outing and dark alleys, always be alert with your surrounding, have a pepper spray and umbrella with you all the time, and always look around when you're walking alone. I once read a post from my friend not long ago, which I think it's true. Ladies have gradually lost their defensing power as they are now all having privileges to "ladies coach", "ladies night"... It somehow reduce the alertness of the people. :/ I mean instead, ladies should maybe take up martial arts? to protect themselves instead of being protected, take the responsibility on taking care and protecting of yourself.
Conclusion: Ladies, be responsible on your own safety and government please settle the problem from the culprits side and not the victim side. ._.
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